#neglected

Sooo due to the craziness of my schedule with end of the year activities, i had somewhat neglected my blog. But now I'M BACK! and i'm ready! so follow along and check in for new blogs. Also Updated the Playlist... Check it out.

Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda...

Shoulda, coulda, woulda... Three words full of nothing but regret. How many times has a scenario occured where there was something you didn't do and wish that you had done? How many times? The regret and remorse you feel afterwards is something serious. I know from experience. They say that in life we regret the things we never did more than the things we did. No one should live life with these regrets. Life should be amazing, but we all know that it doesn't happen that way. Life has it's ups, and it's downs. We have those moments that happen and those are the moments we live for. But then there are those moments that are so catastrophic that we wish we'd die. And even contemplate suicide. Now rather than me being your guiding light out of the tunnel, i'm more in need of my own guiding light. Sometimes you have to learn to accept things for what they are. You have to learn to take what's happened and make the best of it. If that means to create another moment and take another chance then do it. If there's no hope for you and that's your last moment then just accept it, look on the bright side of it, and learn from it. That way the next time a similar situation rolls around you know what to do. Everything that happens in life somewhat happens for a reason. Or at least i believe so. And like i've said you just have to learn from it. Even if it is one of the worst things that happens to you.  O.k. so getting off topic here...
Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda. Eliminate that. Next time you think it's the perfect moment to take a chance, but your feeling to afraid to do it, Do it anyways. Because if you don't you will forever wish you had. And sometimes that bravery, and boldness that you have about yourself is appealing/attractive to guys. SOMETIMES. This doesn't mean the next time you and whoever are alone you take that chance and kiss him. Well... Naaaah. Go ahead and go for it. Just be ready for what may happen afterwards because the outcome you may be hoping for may not be the outcome you get. Just saying.
"The biggest mistake that you could make, is the chance that you don't take."