This is the theory that i developed one day when i had alot of time on my hands which has been alot lately.
So lets say that your home. Your just sitting in your room starring at a wall. Your mind starts to wonder. You begin to think about why your so bored. One of those reason's and the most daunting of reasons is because you dont have a guy in your life to keep you busy. Then out of the blue your mind pulls the first guy that comes to mind and suddenly he's your new target. Then you begin to think of how it would be if the two of you were together, but in the back of your head something tells you that there's NO way you would've ever dated him before this moment so why now? that is the theory of Boredom vs. Infatuation.
When you become so bored that your mind just chooses any random guy to keep your mind busy. As a human were always thinking about something. Our minds never stop thinking. When we lack things to think about our minds think about anything. even simple things such as spots or something crazy.
Now that your mind was so bored and has randomly selected some guy for you to thnk about, you continue to think about him. And you let your thoughts and imagination take flight. And once they've left the ground there's no going back. So now here you are about a week later in just dying love with this random person. When in reality your not. thats infatuation that you feel. you think your in love but your really not. And should it go well between the two of you and you end up in a relationship when you finally come back to your senses somebody is going to get their heart broken. and that person just might be you...
SO the point is when your bored and you start thinking about that cute guy that was in your math class, or some guy you saw in wal-mart or maybe even your best guy friend, ask yourself are you just bored? Because falling for this boredom-infatuation can only get you hurt.
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