Imperfect Timing

There's a famous quote that says "There is a time and a place for everything." This has never been more true. In our lives we have so much going on that certain events occur at the worst times. For instance your grieving a family member, and then your phone gets stolen. Imperfect timing. It's as if bad things just continue to happen back, to back, to back. Or there's the imperfect timing when all of your friends are going out, but your grounded or have a boat load of homework. Imperfect timing. Or your Imperfect timing could be that someone special comes into your life, at a bad time. Now that's imperfect timing. For instance, Your mom has a baby, but your going to college in two months. Imperfect Timing. Or, You just broke up with your ex, a few weeks ago and some other guy comes around but unfortunantly your not ready for a relationship at the time. Which is understandable because you need to have yourself together in order to be with someone else. And you cant do that if your still fawning over your ex. But at some point you do need to move on and not hold onto that... Because if you do, you'll never move on. Which is unfair to that poor guy that likes you. Especially when this new guy is already better than your ex. But you cant control when things happen. Sometimes you just have to accept it and keep it moving. There's also another quote that i heard once it said that life is 25% of what happens to you and 75% of how you react to it. Which is true. Things happen and we spend the rest of our time dealing with these things. That boys and girls is called Cause and effect. Reacting to what happens. And as inelligent beings we have the option of choosing how we react to things. We can make it out to be, good, bad, or tragic. That's all up to us. How we react to a situation also in return has it's own cause and effect. For example the whole you just broke up, and you meet a new guy shortly after situation. After you meet this guy you have to react to it and choose what will happen next. Your main options are to A.) be nice, and keep it casual, just being friends. B.)Take it to the next level and begin "talking" to him because you like the attention, and dont want to be alone, or C.) Completely shut him down and cut off communication because your not ready to even be social with another male right now. Reasonably option A sounds the best to me. It just seems decent. But The point is that you can choose how it goes and what happens. It's all about how you react to the situation, despite the Imperfect timing.