"Prom-mance"

Prom-mance. A term that i came up with  by combining the words prom and romance together. Pro-mance is also similar to "infatuation." Except this infatuation occurs during the prom season, and has a lot to do with said event. Prom-mance is that feeling of strong like towards someone (your prom date) because the two of you have been spending  a lot of time together in preparation for prom. It also occurs because of the stereotypical idea of how prom is supposed to work. Ideally you go to prom with your boyfriend/girlfriend or that guy you've been crushing on since forever, and you guys slow dance, and take lots of pictures, then at the end of the night if your down the guy gets lucky. That's how prom is "supposed" to work. And because of the way it's supposed to work people get caught up in the idea that they like "like" their date. When in actuality they really don't. That's that prom-mance kicking into high gear. Then as soon as prom is over... You get DROPPED! like a dead fly. Yeah, kicked to the curve. Big time. But be ware. {I myself actually believe that I have somewhat fallen victim to Prom-mance} And I have a friend that thanks to prom, her and her now boyfriend began dating because he asked her to prom. They started out as prom dates, then the next thing everyone knows is they're a couple. How did that happen? Prom-mance. I just hope that after Prom is over they don't break up... That'd be tragic. Now that Prom-mance has been exposed you can catch yourself before your too deep in. We all want that amazing night like....







But even though we want that amazing night that we'll never forget... The night where you weren't afraid to do anything, Nothing was impossible, and what might've sounded crazy, sounded sane. The kind of night that you see in movies, and in pictures where they're doing crazy things, and smiling and laughing living life. Especially for Seniors. This seems like your clock is ticking quickly, and that alarm is about to go off and your really trying to live it up before it's too late.  you've gotta be smart about it. Think about it. This is one time that i will actually give permission to over think something. This time you actually need to think about EVERYTHING and then some, Because you don't wanna make permanent decisions on temporary feelings. Especially when the outcome could change your life. So think about it.

Murphy's Law

I am a strong believer in Murphy's Law. For those of you who don't know let me inform you on what this is. Murphy's law is basically the statement that "Anything that can go wrong, Will go wrong." And i personally believe this 100%. Only because I know this to be true. Soooo many times have i thought of all the bad things that could happen and sure enough they all did. The point behind Murphy's law is to plan for the unexpected, and have multiple back up plans. When you don't plan for things to go wrong then your stuck when they do go wrong. Moral of the story is have a back up plan. Plan ahead. Consider your options, and beware of the unexpected. The end.

Females for dummies: the thought process begins

During class today while venturing down the winding roads of my mind I for whatever reason wondered if there was a "Relationships for dummies" book. I'm sure you've seen the "for dummies brand of books in a books store or something of that nature. There's a "For dummies" for almost everything. There's relationships, sex, math, geometry, algebra, literature, Shakespeare, construction, football, basketball... Like i said almost everything. But i googled it and come to find out that there actually is a Relationship for dummies book. *Which i will be ordering from Amazon a.s.a.p.* But what guy is honestly going to read "Relationships for dummies?" Better question. What guy is actually going to read a book? Getting a guy to read anything is nearly damn impossible. Especially something with the word "relationship" in it. To them that just says "THIS BOOK IS ABOUT EVERYTHING I ALREADY KNOW."  Because guys think that they know everything about females and relationships. But actually the Relationships for dummies is targeted at females... not males. That to me seems a tad bit unfair. There needs to be a book for guys to learn about females. How we work. How we operate. A book about things that they do, and how it affects us. A book about our interpretation of the world and our expectations. So that guys may have a better understanding of us. I mean all they do is complain about how they don't get females, and how crazy we are... well I think it's time that i stepped in. Somebody needs too. Don't you think? I'm considering doing this in two ways:
                                     1. A series of blogs
                                     2. A series of YouTube videos that would be posted to my YouTube channel: Blueskadooskie (currently i have no videos uploaded. So hold off on that.)
Honestly I may do both. And i don't think it should be just my opinion. It should be me interviewing other people and asking them their opinion as well. I think this little project is gonna be good. It could potentially be a success. With the help of some people it could be good. But we'll have to wait and see. In the mean time I'm excited about it so, let it begin!

Just when you gave up all hope...

So many times after a relationship we fall into this funk where it seems as though no one can save us from ourselves. Were depressed, miserable, and eat our feelings away. I know. I've been there. But at some point we have to save ourselves from us. Were only hurting ourselves worse. At some point we have to learn to move on, and live with the hand we've been dealt. It's up to us what we make of the situation. Some of us make the best of it, and some of us make the worst. Honestly some easy ways to get over it is to

• Go out with your girls. Get all sexy, and go out. Not to get back at your ex, but to have a good time without them, and forget about them.
• Don't be a hermit and shut yourself off from the rest of the world. Stay busy. 
• Have a Pity party with your best girl and have movies and ice cream. Let it all out. Cry, rant, whatever you feel you need to do. 
• Eventually when you feel your up to it, do some shame less flirting. Sure enough at some point you'll start feeling like no guy out there would want you, but actually you still got it.

But just when you gave up hope, watch some wonderful guy come along, and basically sweep you off your feet. And here you are appalled that he even existed. Your Mr. Next. Yep. He's real. All you have to do is hold out, and keep the faith. And soon enough he'll appear. I know it sounds like a magic trick or something crazy, but seriously the right guy, or at least a decent good guy is out there. Not saying that he's the one or anything, but a good one is out there. And as hard as your looking for him, he's looking for you too...