Just when you gave up all hope...

So many times after a relationship we fall into this funk where it seems as though no one can save us from ourselves. Were depressed, miserable, and eat our feelings away. I know. I've been there. But at some point we have to save ourselves from us. Were only hurting ourselves worse. At some point we have to learn to move on, and live with the hand we've been dealt. It's up to us what we make of the situation. Some of us make the best of it, and some of us make the worst. Honestly some easy ways to get over it is to

• Go out with your girls. Get all sexy, and go out. Not to get back at your ex, but to have a good time without them, and forget about them.
• Don't be a hermit and shut yourself off from the rest of the world. Stay busy. 
• Have a Pity party with your best girl and have movies and ice cream. Let it all out. Cry, rant, whatever you feel you need to do. 
• Eventually when you feel your up to it, do some shame less flirting. Sure enough at some point you'll start feeling like no guy out there would want you, but actually you still got it.

But just when you gave up hope, watch some wonderful guy come along, and basically sweep you off your feet. And here you are appalled that he even existed. Your Mr. Next. Yep. He's real. All you have to do is hold out, and keep the faith. And soon enough he'll appear. I know it sounds like a magic trick or something crazy, but seriously the right guy, or at least a decent good guy is out there. Not saying that he's the one or anything, but a good one is out there. And as hard as your looking for him, he's looking for you too...