How I know...

I'm beginning to think that there's no such thing as "the one" but rather we find someone and we try our hardest to make it work. That's obviously just me and my realist ways... Of course we want to believe that some mystical feeling will overcome us and we'll just suddenly know. No. I think we find someone who makes us think "hey, this might work." Maybe just being with them feels right, it feels natural. So maybe that's how you know. Just laying in bed with them and thinking to yourself, "I could do this for the rest of my life." or at least at that moment you think you could do it for the rest of your life. It's crazy though how it can just suddenly hit you. You're just walking down the street holding hands and it suddenly dawns upon you that hey, this could be my forever and once you realize it you spend the rest of your life trying to make it last forever which is a true test. I think these days people get married without thinking about the actual issues that come along with marriage. Their so stuck in infatuation that they fail to even consider anything that could go wrong. Which is why so many marriages end up in divorce. How do you resolve a argument? How do you communicate with the other when something is wrong? Money issues? Stress? Work? You have to consider everything. You can't just jump into it then everything is just perfect and works itself out. It doesn't work like that. It's work, and if your not willing to make it work then obviously you weren't the one for them, and they weren't the one for you. Hence forth there's no such thing as the one.