Lesson Learned

It's sad that one guy can mess up a girl for every guy who ever comes along. All it takes is one heartbreak to screw up a girl. After that first heartbreak we become guarded of our hearts. Never foolishly placing it into the hands of some irresponsible boy who doesnt have the means to care for it. We quickly formulate in our minds that Every guy is the same. And though many try to claim that this theory is incorrect and judgemental, those are the ones to quickly prove the theory right.
Guys... They screw up. That's what they do. And we as women forgive them. For whatever reason. Especially when they screw up big time. Guys cheat, lie, decieve, and hurt. Then after all of that we forgive them as though they did nothing wrong. *waves red flag* THIS IS A PROBLEM! If we continue to forgive they will continue to fuck up knowing that they already have forgiveness. No! That's a negative. Forgiveness for like a little white lie is ok, but cheating: Unforgivable. How can you have the nerve to be all up in one girls face telling her how much you love her, and how she's the one for you and you'll never do her wrong and never leave her. Then you go to another girl and tell her the same thing? NO! Thats not ok in any way! Would you like it if your girl was cheating on you? Probally not. You'd probally be ready to break up with her two seconds after you found out. Now how do you think we feel?
Then this whole debate that all guys aren't the same that there are some good ones out in the world. We'll where are they because I have yet to come across one. They're all the same. Point. Blank. Period. There is no such thing as a good guy that wants to do right by somebody. That wants to be a one woman man, and actually be in it because they want to and not because they want something. My mom always would tell me that "boys are only after one thing and it's not your mind." This is true. That's all they really want & some of them are so desperate to get it they'll do whatever it takes to get it. They'll sweet talk you, be in a relationship with you and make you feel like they really love you. Then once you give it up thats it. They're done with you. On to the next. My personal favorite quote: "Niggas aint shit, and they aint gone ever be shit"
But there is hope. Very little but some non the less. Maybe somewhere out there there is. Maybe somewhere they exist. And if someone should find them they should not be selfish and share.
Bitterness. Bitterness is the after affects of being hurt badly multiple times. We become, angry and rude and soon no longer give a fuck about any male species. *with the exception of some family members.*