The Epitome of disapointment...
Let me begin to describe to disapointment. Disapointment is that point where you have expectations for how you want or expect for someone to conduct themselves but they do as you expect. They let you down. But when this disapointment becomes life altering, and changing then what? When someone you care deeply about, and plays a major role in your life disapoints you, is forgiveness even a option? How can you forgive someone for their wrong doing when their wrong doing has hurt you deeply. Such things as spreading a rumor, or steeling, can those be overlooked? In my opinion the answer is yes. Those things are forgivable. But when it becomes physical how can you forgive that? Physical as in someone hitting you, or you and someone having s** for the first time then they turn around and leave you after getting it. Can you honestly forgive that? I say no. It's abuse in my opinion. How dare anyone put their hands on you and believe that it's ok? Forgiving them for such nonsense only gives them the right to do it again. Which in the end is no one elses fault but your own. And so is giving it up. That is also your own fault. And maybe one day you can forgive yourself, but the other person... never. I'm a strong believer in holding grudges. And if your going to hold one, hold it for a long time.
Forgiveness is given to those who are deserving. Not to those who are pleading. There is a major difference. Forgiveness is given to those who you love, and can overlook for their minor mistep, but not to those who you are infatuated with and believe they deserve a second chance. Knowing the difference between the two can make all the difference in the world between that and a second offense.