Single... A form of loneliness. A term to define someone who has yet to find someone else to have strong feelings towards them. Single, as in: alone, one, Pathetic, unattractive, Depressed, miserable. So many people claim to enjoy being in this state of being but I strongly disagree. Nobody wants to be alone. Everyone wants someone to care about them, and love them as much as they could love someone. But it's hard to find that special someone. Because should you dare slip up and love the wrong one it won't have a happy ending. Someone always gets their heart broken & more than likely that someone is you.
I've always imagined, as I'm sure many people do, that one day I'd find someone who loved me to no end. Someone that was just amazing, perfect in every way & seemed as though their whole purpose in life was to love me. But ofcoarse that's just my imagination running away... The kind of guy that I imagine doesn't exist. Or atleast I've never met one that even comes close. The only place guys like this exist are in movies, and books... Maybe that's the problem. Movies, books, and television give us this false idea of love. That a perfect guy exist somewhere out there in the world when in actuality it doesn't. Every guy has his flaws. Just as we as females have our flaws to. Nobody's perfect, and that's a fact. But it's the ability to love our flaws, and overlook them and focus on the big picture that helps us find that one person.
So many people build relationships based off of appearance, rather than personality which is so many relationships dont make it. So ask yourself, would you like to be in a unstable relationship with someone thats a complete ass hole, and it's destined to end, or would you like to be in a relationship with some one you can love, and it will last a long time perhaps even life, and you'd be happy except they werent the most attractive person in the planet. Now which would you rather have?
Also. Being single is not a complete bad thing. Besides being lonely... but it's not ALL bad. Perhaps rather than calling it single we should rename it. To if someone ask you "are you single?" you simple say "no im in a finding myself stage." Because thats what it is. Your finding yourself, and learning what makes you happy. And if you dont know how to be happy by yourself how can you expect to be happy by yourself? Because you'll only be dependent on the other person to make you happy, but if the other person cant make you happy then both of you become unhappy. Then there's two unhappy people. Why drag both of you through the mud? So take this time "alone" and figure yourself out. Find out what makes you tick. And perhaps in that time while your finding yourself, someone else comes along. Patience.
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