I remember, how could i forget?

"I remember how could I forget how you feel." ~ Frank Ocean
                                                                                       -thinking bout you


The process of getting over somebody, is ridiculously long, hard, and difficult. Especially considering how you may think your completely over somebody but then all it takes is a look, a hug, a "hi", or even a picture that can completely send you right back to where you started. I personally think that it's impossible to be 100% over a person. It just isn't going to happen, because a peice of you will always have feelings for that person. That will probably never go away.
        You can't erase feelings. If we could, believe me i would've done that a long time ago. But you just cant. You simply have to accept how you feel, and deal with the circumstances of the situation. Wheather that situation is going in your favor or not. And seeing as how this particular post is about moving on, lets just say that it's not in your favor. Unfortunatly things don't always work out in relationships, and we all know that. Sometimes you might be in the process of trying to be in a relationship, or just might have a serious crush and for whatever reason it just doesn't work out. So now that you have all of these built up emotions, what are you supposed to do, because you cant just make it go away. You can't help but to feel something. Especially hurt. That feeling of complete hurt is when the healing process begins. Now that you've realized that it's over but your somewhat heart broken you can now pick up the peices of your broken heart and begin to put them back together. This is easier said then done. It's gonna take a lot of time, dedication, and persistance to get over it. Sometimes you might feel the urge to hold a grudge and you might even be bitter, but lets be honest, thats not the way to go. DONT LET THE WRONG GUY MESS YOU UP FOR THE RIGHT GUY. That is a very important statement. infact i feel that i shoud say it again: DONT LET THE WRONG GUY MESS YOU UP FOR THE RIGHT GUY. O.k. that's two times. Hopefully you got the memo. Now i'm positive that unless you went off to college, or moved away, that it's going to be near impossible to completely avoid this person. (be it guy, or girl, no judgment.) So the next time you see them are you going to

      A.) burst into tears
      B.) give him the death stare
      C.) randomly spaz, and completely go off on him
      D.) play it cool smile, and keep it moving.


Using common sense which one sounds like the best answer? If you said anything other than D. you might want to seriously consider re-evaluating your life. D. is the best answer. Don't let him know that he's gotten under your skin. Trust me, them knowing that they got you is the biggest reward for them. Not only that now that they see what kind of affect they have on you they will continue to toy with your emotions just for the fun of it. Don't give them that power. Don't let them have it. Be the bigger person. At least on the outside. I'm sure that you'll be dying on the inside damn near tears, but on the outside don't let that out.
I know that it's hard. Especially when it's someone who was your first love. You never forget your first love. Although you may try, it's not going to happen. I promise you you'll always remember. And you may ask yourself what was i thinking, but he'll always have a soft spot in your heart.
Moral of the post is, It's hard to get over someone. It really is, but we have to try. And even though we can put everything we have into moving on, it's impossible to forget, and feelings don't just disapear so it's impossible to fully get over someone. But don't worry, your not alone.