Do you find yourself steady trying to compete with that one girl that just seems to have all the guys drooling over her? Did you ever thing that they're not drooling over her, but what she's giving away?
Do you constantly ask yourself what does she have that I dont? Or maybe im cuter than her, or skinnier than her, but yet she has a boyfriend. If so Join the Club. It's called #teamsingle. Where we embrace the fact that were single and dont care. (in theory, but we really do)
Being single is like a punishment. It's like now it defines who you are. It's like oh your that girl that cant get a guy. Or the girl that cant pull. Or the self doubter "im so ugly, and nobody wants me, maybe if i loose 100 pounds and grow a butt...) no boo. 100 pounds less and a slightly bigger booty is not gone change who you are. If whoever it is that you may be "talking" to doesnt like you for who you are and the way you are then they clearly arent worth your time. *ok getting off topic here*
So your single. You know. The guys know it. Everyone around you knows it. But is it really necessary to be reminded of that every where you go? Theme parks * i went to six flags today and there were couples every where holding hands and cuddling in line* magazines, tv shows, movies* there is always 500 couples at the movies waiting for the lights to dim so they can get their make out on* and now even the grocery store.
Yes even in the grocery store the try to acomidate to those of us livng the single life. Honestly it's depressing and they wonder why single people are so depressed all the time. Because Society is constantly reminding us that we are alone. That there is no one else in the world to love us. That we will die alone, and lead a life with no one to take part in it. Yes America. Thank you oh so much.
But i am a strong believer that God Makes everything in pairs of 2's. Notice for adam he made eve. For every male animal he made a female. No one was meant to be alone, but some of us are. I thing that one day there will be someone that is worthy of me spending the rest of my life with. But as of right now, there is NO ONE worthy of that. NO One. Sooooo what do you do? You enjoy the single life. And be happy with it. And you dont jump ship for the first guy that even slightly likes you because it's gone end in heart break and tragedy. CAN I GET A AMEN?!?!
But back to my point here. Living single is not all bad. Surround yourself with people *guys and girls* that make your life worth it!
Here's the song of the day to motivate your "single-ness"
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