So tonight i had a convo with a friend, and i felt like we said some real shit that other people need to know.
Soooo ofcoarse this happens to be about guys... and yet again the dumb shit they do, as well as stupid shit we as females do to. So Before i begin, dont take my shit seriously, and forgive me for my language. (i been keeping it Rated G for yall but tonight i gotta take it to Rated R) *Fair Warning*
So moving right on along here....
Tonight we came to the conclusion that there is no 100% way to get over a guy. It just isnt happening. You can say that your over them but in reality you know your not. We try to convince ourselves that we are by lying to ourselves and everyone around us when we know it's a lie. There's no point in lying. If your not over them dont lie about it. Be upfront and serious about it. Help yourself out by saying it out loud. "Im not over (Insert name) and it's ok!" Because watch you have one friend that kinda likes him and the moment you "say" your over such and such watch them take the shot at the one that you still have feelings for. Then for you to have to watch the two of them is twice a painful! You might as well just stab yourself in the chest at that point!
Then Guys... it's like you lead them on and they never get the memo! its like "DAMN how many hints i gotta drop for you to get the memo?" well... you might as well stop dropping hints because he'll never get it. Guys are just to simplistic. You have to be upfront and honest with them, because it'll be a lifetime before they figure it out. So yeah you drop hints, but dont expect him to get it, and when he doesnt dont get mad because that's just how it is. So if you should ever like a guy please for your sake tell him. Some guys admire that bravery and boldness in a girl.
Then as girls we know what we want in a guy, we know how we want them to dress, act, and say, well that perfect guy DOES NOT EXIST! not in this world or the next so just let that image go. We expect to much from them... We want them to be the perfect boy friend and even THE boyfriend. but some of them are afraid of commitment, afraid to be tied down to one girl because they know they'll mess it up and dont even want to get involved some just want to be flirts and free to flirt and fuck whoever they want no strings attached. Now there are some girls that are like that to.
But when they fall short of our expectations we are so quick to be angered and upset and throw them to the curve! We cant, we have to be understanding of each other. And be forgiving.
Sometimes we are so angered by our feelings we cant control our emotions. we cry we get mad... it's unexplainable... Because we love with our all. We give too much of ourselves to someone else and dont even get half of that in return. we need for someone to just be there! BE THERE! thats all we want just be there for us! When were happy when were sad just be there! and dont abandon us when times get hard.
That is the realest shit i ever talked about on a tuesday night.
R E A L N I G G A S H I T!
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